Djerba: The Basics
As I entered Hara Kebira, the Jewish village on the island of Djerba, I waved “hello” to the policemen guarding the entrance and made my way to the center of the town. On this, my first visit to “Hara,” I felt as if I had stepped into a time machine; this is the story of the remaining Jewish communities in the south of Tunisia.

Djerba itself is a small island off the southern coast of Tunisia, notorious as the “Land of the Lotus-Eaters” in Homer’s epic The Odyssey. As the story goes, after stopping his ship on the island, Ulysses encountered much difficulty in returning them to the ship to continue their journey. For a little while in Djerba, I understood how they feel; long, flat plains dotted with palm trees comprise the interior of the island, beautiful beaches line the coast of the Mediterranean, and the capital Houmt Souk is quaint yet bustling with tourists- it is easy to lose track of time and fall in love with the relaxed atmosphere of Djerba.

The Djerban Jewish Migration
This is not a topic on which many Djerban Jews will divulge, but after building a relationship with one relatively open and liberal member of the community, I was able to ascertain some information. The population of Jews on Djerba in 1948 was anywhere from five to seven thousand. Their migration began in 1948, with Israeli independence, as many Djerbans were Zionists and wanted to “return home” for the coming of the Messiah. The migration picked up again after Tunisian independence and the Suez Crisis in 1956 out of a combination of fear of governmental instability and anti-Semitism. In 1967, the migration increased less because of the fear of violence on Djerba, and more because the strong Zionists that remained on Djerba saw Israel’s victory in the Six Day War as confirmation of the coming of the Messiah. Most of the aforementioned migration was directed toward Israel, but during this time, many Jews also migrated to France, usually for economic and financial reasons or to join their children who moved to pursue higher education. According to this source, small incidences of violence against Jews in the form of rock-throwing have persisted, but no major violence occurred. Currently, the migration has slowed with anywhere from 1 to 5 families per year leaving Djerba.

Hara Seghira

The Jewish population on Djerba lives in two towns: the aforementioned Hara Kebira (“big town” in Arabic) and Hara Seghira (“small town”), home to the famous La Ghriba Synagogue. According to the information on the interior, the original synagogue was built in 586 BC, when, according to one of the many legends associated with this synagogue, a holy stone fell from heaven and a mysterious woman appeared to direct its construction. Maintaining the continued existence of a synagogue on this spot, the currently temple was built in the early 20th century. During Lag B’omer Jews from around the world make the pilgrimage to La Ghriba to venerate Rabbi Shimon Bar Yishai, a Talmdic scholar who lived over 400 years ago. In recent years from three to five thousand Jews attended, and during the celebration the synagogue’s Torahs, some over 200 years old, are paraded through the streets of the town.

Hara Seghira is presently home to about 50 Jews, and two other functioning synagogues. These should more appropriately be called “prayer rooms” as the one I visited was a small, austere, cave-like room painted blue, with benches lining the perimeter. They are equipped with some sidurim, but the community uses La Ghriba for Torah reading. I heard mixed reports about the schools in Hara Seghira, allegedly there is a yeshiva there, but other reports indicate otherwise, and I never found it. As in much of the rest of the country, women were not in attendance for Shabbat services, and there is not even a designated place for women in the “prayer rooms;” I sat amongst the men, but closest to the door, during Friday evening services. The town does not have its own shochet (kosher slaughterer) or kosher restaurants, so its Jewish residents travel the 7 kilometers to Hara Kebira for kosher food.

Hara Kebira
Hara Kebira is truly the “Jewish neighborhood” of Djerba, as one local resident phrased it. I first arrived on a Thursday morning, right after Shacharit, or the morning prayer, and saw men wearing kippot, holding their tallit and sidur, and rushing off to work. I was in utter shock; this was the first time I saw Jews sporting their kippot in a public place since my trip began, and it wasn’t just a handful of people. It seemed that every man in the street was in the middle of their daily morning routine of prayer then work. Simultaneously, I saw traditionally clad women (long skirts, long-sleeve shirts, head coverings tied in a Jewish, rather than Muslim, style) scurrying around, dropping their young children off at school. I walked down the street and saw a storefront whose small awning said “Brik Itshak,” the name of a Jewish forefather, and a “Kosher” sign in Hebrew on another awning. Furthermore, most of the houses surrounding me were painted white and blue, and many of them had menorot, or Jewish candlestick, painted next to the door. While Hara Kebira is most certainly a Jewish enclave, some non-Jews live in the town, but they are in the minority.

Once the shock settled in, curiosity took over and I began finding people to chat with on the street; at this point I realized that essentially the old-world atmosphere, later confirmed by descriptions of the way of life, caused my initial surprise. One discovery after another revealed to me a Jewish society that has preserved its way of life for centuries, resisting foreign influences and change. Naturally, I was fascinated.
Education

While Tunisia provides public schools for its children and has laws regarding attendance, they are laxly followed and rarely applied. The Jewish community of Djerba provides a Jewish education system to educate its youngsters in a time-honored fashion. The town boasts one or two yeshivot (religious schools; and again, conflicting reports), two kindergartens each with 75 children enrolled, and one boy’s and one girl’s school. All of these schools teach primarily in Hebrew; the children learn the Hebrew alphabet in the kindergarten until age 6, then boys enroll in the yeshiva and the boy’s school, and the girls attend the girl’s school. The girl and boy’s schools teach Hebrew, grammar, Jewish history and the Tanach, while the yeshiva focuses on the Talmud and the Gmorah. However, the girl’s school only meets for a few hours in the morning before lunch, and holds optional classes in the evening, after the boys finish their lessons in the afternoon. Around 70 or 80% of students attend the government’s school when they are not at the Jewish school and learn history, math, Arabic, and later French etc. The decision to attend the public school is made by the parents; the usual reason for a parent to refrain from sending their children to the public school is the fear of Muslim-Jewish interaction. The teachers in the kindergartens and schools are not required to be qualified in any manner, and in the kindergartens, are usually young girls who have only just completed the Jewish education system themselves.
All of the Jewish schools only provide education until Kitah Tet, which translates to 9th grade or about 15 years of age, after which the (male) student chooses to either go to the government school full time or work, and the (female) student can choose to continue her education in public school or remain in the house. Most Jewish teenage boys begin working after their studies with literacy in Hebrew and maybe Arabic, even though Arabic is their first spoken language and they may speak some French. Most Jewish teenage girls choose to return to the home and remain there until they are married (more on that later). A few girls, more than boys, decide to attend the public school full time after the Jewish school; in classes of about 40, the 12th grade had 2 Jewish girls in it and the 10th grade had 4. Quite evidently, the number of Jewish students who not only achieve their Baccalaureate (US equivalent to graduating from high school), but also who attend university, are very few and far between.
I met one girl who is the exception; just from speaking to her for an hour, in the English she had learned in only a few years at the “Muslim” school (as they call it), I could tell she is bright. She spoke to me about her studies- at age 15 she began learning French and Arabic, and a year later English lessons began and she chose her major of Commerce. She expressed to me how much she enjoyed school, how good her marks were, her desire to continue her education and her desire to marry out of love. However, she has a problem; she does not know if or where she will be able to attend university. Her Hebrew is not up-to-par so she does not want to go to Israel, she has family in France so could go there but does not like the French way of life, America is out of the question because she has no family there, and she does not want to go to a university in Tunisia as the only Jew.
This brave girl is defying the norms of her Djerban Jewish society, and as a result, is facing many inherent difficulties. However, this is not the first such story I heard. I met one woman named Dolly who is the former school teacher at the Jewish girl’s school. She believes strongly in the importance of education, and considers the teachers’ lack of qualifications and the young age of students leaving school particularly dangerous and inauspicious. Additionally, she has a generally cynical view of the town’s adherence to traditional gender roles; she told me that she thinks that the girls leave school too early, get married too young and that she does not believe in covering her head, like the other married women in town. Therefore, she ensured that all three of her children (two daughters and one son) went to university in France, and as a result, her daughters are successful and married (of their own choosing) in Israel. She explained to me that when she first sent them to university, the women in the town expressed their concern and disapproval in her attitude and decisions. She dealt with this problem similarly to how she dealt with the problem of covering her head; she “yes’d” them so they would leave her alone while continuing to insist on her children’s education, just as she wears a head scarf in public and removes it when she enters her house.
Marriage and Women’s Issues

Perhaps the aspect of Djerban Jewish society that most reflects traditionally archaic Jewish lifestyle is the life of the average Djerban Jewish woman. As previously explained, girls do attend a Jewish school in Hara Kebira, but for less hours a day then their male counterparts. Furthermore, their curriculum only prepares them for a life of religious and national devotion, even though women in Djerba only attend synagogue once a year for Yom Kippur, and most of the synagogues do not have a place for women to sit. While a handful of young girls work as teachers in the kindergartens after they finish school at age 15, most return to their house where they help their mothers until they are married.
While marriages are not arranged, per se, in Djerba, they certainly do not reflect usual American or Western trends leading up to marriage. When a man, usually from age 23 to 35, depending on when he finally becomes financially capable of supporting a family, decides who he wants to marry, his parents visit the parents of the potential bride. The groom’s parents discuss the groom’s intention and if the families get along and the bride’s parents are happy with the suitor, the girl is then consulted for approval. I say girl because the average age for a bride in Djerba is 16 to 22, and she usually does not turn down the offer. I should probably mention here that not only has the girl never truly met her groom before, but he will be the first man, outside of family members, with whom she has ever conversed or associated. The strict separation of girls and boys from school is carried into the social sphere as they do not engage with one another in any capacity, until marriage. I asked a group of young girls if they know any of the boys their age in Hara Kebira, and they replied that they know everyone’s name and “story,” but have never spoken to any of them and certainly do not have any male friends.
Once the marriage is decided upon and the arrangements made, the wedding itself takes place over the course of one to two weeks. It is customary to paint blue menorot and fish (sign of good luck for protection) on the sides of the houses of the bride and groom. The wedding almost always occurs during the summer because while there is a “wedding hall” in Hara Kebira, it is not that nice and they prefer to have the ceremonies and events outside. There are smaller events and occasions during the course of these two weeks, with the most notable being the “henna.” An extremely traditional custom is North Africa, not only for Jews but also for Muslims, the families and friends gather for the ritual painting of the hands to celebrate the upcoming nuptial. The wedding takes place during the week and the following day the families go to La Ghriba, dressed in traditional Tunisian garb- brightly colored dresses, accessories, headdresses adorned with gold sequence and beads- to take photographs.
After the wedding period is over, the couple usually begins a family, and the wife stays home to take care of the house and children, while the husband works. When I went one night for dinner at a kosher eatery, I noticed that I did not see any women eating or socializing. Furthermore, even though the women are capable of reading the prayers, they do not attend synagogue on Shabbat, but rather only on Yom Kippur. On my first day in Hara Kebira I was speaking to one man that explained this to me, to which I responded that I was surprised because in Morocco women are always in attendance for Shabbat services and there certainly is a women’s section in each synagogue. He told me that in Morocco they are not as religious as in Djerba. I was and remain confused by his statement; how and why is attending synagogue and praying directly to G-d considered less religious than only preparing for the meals surrounding the prayer? I postulate that in their society “religiosity” is either synonymous or closely identifiable with “tradition” and any deviance from their ancestor’s way of life is automatically considered “not as religious” and therefore, unacceptable. These are just examples of the restrictive lifestyle for Djerban Jewish women, which, interestingly enough, is more extreme than the roles and way of life of their Tunisian Muslim counterparts.
In my conversations with Jewish women in Hara Kebira, I tried my best not to pass judgment on their way of life, but I could not help but notice that at least some of the women that I met seemed unhappy or unsatisfied with the status quo. Perhaps it was because I happened to meet the women that are more visible, and therefore less traditional, but at least some of the young girls expressed their remorse at the lack of opportunities and option available to them. However, these girls and women like Dolly are in the minority; most of the women in Hara Kebira are weary of outsiders (as I felt from experience- not only by the strange and suspicious looks I received from women, but also by being pelted with stones by some mischievous young kids that did not know what this outsider was doing in their town) probably because they resist change and want to maintain the only way of life they have ever known. Another indicator of these attributes of Djerban society is the lack of migration from Djerba; many young people express interest in moving away, but usually do not because of their respect for their parents and tradition, and the difficulty in breaking from conformity in such a close-knit, closed society.
Muslim-Jewish Relations
As in other places I have studied, it is difficult to generalize the characteristics of Muslim-Jewish relations in a particular place. I met people who were not only tolerant of Muslims, but even had Muslim friends, as well as others who did not particularly care to interact with them. It is safe to say that Jews in Djerba maintain normal functioning relationships with Muslims particularly where work is concerned. Relationships beyond practical ones really depend on the person, but I must admit that I met more Djerban Jews that have close friendships with Muslims than not.
When having Shabbat lunch with one family, I asked about the incidences of violence that took place on Djerba in 1985 and 2002 and I was advised “not to talk about politics in Djerba.” Despite this warning I learned that the people of Djerba never felt particularly threatened by these events. As it was explained, they were certainly afraid after each incident, but not enough to leave (even though some people did) because they considered them isolated events carried out by one person who hates Jews, and who is not indicative of general Djerban sentiments toward their Jewish population.
Furthermore, Ben Ali, the long-term President of Tunisia, has a close relationship with the Jewish population and protects them. The entrances to Hara Kebira are guarded 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, by at least 2 policemen each, who do not allow anyone to enter that they do not recognize as residents of Hara Kebira. In Hara Seghira, policemen are stationed around the small town and La Ghriba has as much security as the Tunisian International Airport.
One last interesting point should be made to indicate the level of comfort in being Jewish in Djerba. One night I went to the internet café in Houmt Souk (the capital), and because I am nosy, I noticed that two boys sharing a computer were typing in Hebrew and talking to Israelis through MSN. However, they were not wearing the kippot they normally wear in the confines of Hara Kebira. This indicates to me that they feel safe living their Jewish life in their village, but when they venture outside they must assimilate. Perhaps this provides some insight into why the Djerban Jews are weary of outsiders that penetrate the metaphorical walls of their village.
Shabbat
I have briefly mentioned Djerban Shabbat customs, but I wanted to elaborate on what I consider one of the most obvious indicators of the traditional, old-world nature of this island. After morning services are over the Djerban Jews hit the streets dressed in their “Saturday’s best.” Groups of Jews of all ages and both sexes flood the streets of Hara Kebira every Shabbat and either walk around the small village, stopping to say hello to same-sexed other groups (male and female groups do not interact on the street), or sit on door steps, porch stoops, or anywhere there is a seat to socialize. It seems that truly everyone in the town is outside for the few hours between services and lunch (about 11 or 12 to 2 or 3 pm), socializing, gossiping or catching up. As the entire community is shomer Shabbat, this comprises their entertainment for the Sabbath day, and this tradition has existed for centuries. As I walked around with a group of 16 year old girls, they informed me that everyone we were passing would be asking questions amongst themselves about who the “new girl” (me) is. I told them I would love for them to come to me and ask, but they said that would not happen, that they would only do it secretly, but by the end of the day, everyone would know who I am. C’est la vie in a small town.
Food
Hara Kebria is also home to the region’s supply of kosher food as almost all Tunisian Jews keep kosher. There are over 5 shochtim that work in the town, slaughtering chickens two times a week. Some of these shochtim are sent to various other Tunisian cities to perform the same duties. There are about half a dozen small kosher eateries in Hara Kebira, which serve everything from brik (fried crepe with tuna and egg filing), to grilled meat in pitas and other Tunisian specialties. One night I visited a few of these for dinner and they were frequented by both Jewish and Arab men (no women). Interestingly, one of the owners of these eateries told me that the place is kosher, but they do not have and are not required to have certification signifying it is kosher; the people in Hara trust them. There is also one store in Hara that sells kosher products from Israel.